Dare to Share Tip #1
Mixing my love for modern abstract and collage. Not near done but lovin’ this process!
Mary piece on wood block and cherry still life. These two must be finished today for a show tomorrow. Please no rain or 95 degree temperatures. I have had 3 shows in a row with rain or heat.
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Have an INSPIRING weekend!
I have something a little different then usual on this most amazing Monday morning. No interview, but some great food for thought to get you through your week.
Last week I talked about living in the here and now, which is something i am just learning to do. The other thing I am just learning to do is set goals for myself. So how do setting goals and living in the here & now really go hand and hand?? Sounds kinda like a contradiction doesn’t it?
It’s really not a contradiction at all , but an essential ingredient to living in the present and here is why… when we set goals for ourselves it frees our mind from clutter and distractions. It helps us to create a road map to finding the dreams our hearts have been yearning for.
We can’t get to someplace we’ve never been without a map!
I have found that the best way to set goals is by creating long range goals, short range goals and a daily to-do list to help me get there. Think of it as a road trip…you have your destination (long range goal), you make your pit stops along the way (short range goals) and you have all your supplies to make the ride more comfortable (daily goals).
I start with my long range goals first, let’s say a five year plan. Where would you like to be in 5 years?? Write it down and dream BIG. Give yourself permission to want those dreams. Remember this is your destination point, the place you look out over the horizon and say
“I did it”!
Next you look at the year ahead. How much of that 5 year plan do you want to have checked off? What steps do you need to take to accomplish this? This is your pit stops, where you refuel and reexamine that road map. Are you on track to get to your destination?
Lastly, daily goals. I like to do this on Sunday nights or Monday mornings. I look at my calendar and plug in any scheduled commitments to my weekly to-do list. Next I like to schedule my daily responsibilities(working-out, bible study, cleaning, dog walking) because for me these are things that can quickly get dismissed or forgotten. Then I simply fill in the blanks with any personal or business goals I would like to accomplish for the week. The purpose of the weekly calendar is to make the journey more comfortable, more enjoyable. This is where the living in the now really takes place. I find that once I have a plan for the week I can appreciate the ride, just kick back and be joyful in the journey.
I find this also really helps to keep my priorities straight. For me that is God, family, friends and my artwork. I think about this weekly when I write my list. When i know what my priorities are and when I know what I want my destination to look like, it is easy to turn it over because I know I am doing the best i can, with the gifts I was given.
I want to share a great on-line resource for helping you to stay on track with your creative business goals…http://mycreativebusinessgoals.blogspot.com/
Check it out. As a blog community, we are in this together. Share with us any tools or resources that you have found to make your journey more enjoyable.
Take it one day at a time, one check box at a time and enjoy the ride!
So many times we get caught up living in the future, engulfed with worry or being dissatisfied with an uncontrollable situation. Always wanting more and losing sight of all we have been given.
“I want the bigger house, the better car, the longer vacation, the better body, the bigger paycheck, etc…”
So many times have i been trapped and entangled in the past, dwelling on hurt, pain, rejection, abandonment and all the darkness that often times comes with growing up. I searched for anything I could find to fill up the hole in my heart but nothing worked.
One day, I was rehashing some painful memories for the millionth time when i heard a voice inside me say, ” I do not live there, I AM right here, right now. If you want to walk with me, there must you live.” Praise you Lord for your conviction because I was set free from the strongholds of dissatisfaction and ingratitude.
As I prepare to open this new chapter in my life, Lord help me to remember where you live so that I can always find you. Help me find the satisfaction I need in you and only you. Make me yearn for you Lord from the moment I wake in the morning, until I lie down my head in the evening. Close the doors to any path that does not please you and make my life the splendor of your beauty.
Amen
He is called the great I AM. He is always with us, right here, right now.
O LORD, you have searched me
and you know me.
You know when I sit and when I rise;
you perceive my thoughts from afar.
You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways.
Before a word is on my tongue
you know it completely, O LORD.
You hem me in—behind and before;
you have laid your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
too lofty for me to attain.
Where can I go from your Spirit?
Where can I flee from your presence?
I hope you have a awesome weekend. Monday, i will be posting about goal setting and how to we can live in the now, but still reach victories in our tomorrows.
I walked them to their new classrooms and as all the kids stared at the new kids, it hit me.
They are growing up and becoming their own little people. Now if you know my kids you are probably asking, ‘really jill, you’re just figuring that out?’ My kids are very independent and we raised them that way. But YES, I’m just realizing that every year I have to let them go a little more, a little further, for a little longer. That reality is setting in. I know the day will soon come when they won’t want to hang around with their old mom and dad anymore and they will pick their friends to share thoughts and feeling with.
So today we moved down the road called life and I watched my babies (ok they are in 4th and 5th grade, but they are MY BABIES!) be brave and grow. I was so blessed to see this side of them and very grateful to be their mom. I wondered all day how they were doing so seeing the smiles on their faces as i picked them up was a precious moment of relief.
How do (or did) you feel when your kids go back to school? I would love to hear your story.
2. Who is your favorite blogger? Please post their link.
It is Mati Rose of The Suspect Shoppe:
http://www/matirose.blogspot.com
4. Describe to me what a day in your life may typically look like.